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Graham R. Knotsea's avatar

My 6 year old daughter would not allow our Church youth director near her, nor would she look at him or talk to him, though he kept trying, laughing and teasing her every day. I told her it was okay to not like him if she didn't want to, that she didn't have to talk to him or let him touch her, and to tell me if he bothered her. I did not laugh at his antics, instead giving him blank stares. Our church blew apart up in a big sex scandal soon after that, and he was one of the ones accused of abuse. My daughter was saved from because I listened to her and encouraged her trust her instincts.

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Ted's avatar
Oct 1Edited

Truly outstanding series you've got going here.

The most difficult aspect of reining in the psychopaths and other dark personality predators and parasites that walk among us, is in teaching people to see beyond the masks. The late Andrew Vachss stated it so very simply as "behavior is truth."

And behavior, or perhaps it's better phrased as "behavioral outcomes" tell us what we need to know, insofar as structuring our pattern recognition is concerned.

I thought the article very insightful, in the way it emphasizes the sort of "shock and awe" stemming from the cognitive dissonance that people experience when first they get a glimpse at what lies behind "the mask."

That experience, of catching a glimpse "behind the curtain," is particularly meaningful because it is rarely something of exclusively intellectual interest. That personal involvement in the situation where the revelation occurs, emphasizes for the onlooker their vulnerability to the predator. In other words, there is a deeply emotional aspect, one that induces a rising, visceral horror at what has been revealed. Betrayal is conceptually central in evaluating the effect.

Yes, I feel a deep gratitude at this moment, gratitude for my good fortune to have read this truly excellent effort being made to help people to recognize the monsters that walk among us.

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