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Frances Leader's avatar

You have reminded me of a very sad moment in my life. My husband said to me, "You are over-emotional!" and I stared at him in dismay. "No." I said dejectedly. "It isn't me who is over-emotional. It is you who is emotionless." That was when I realised that the man I believed I had married did not exist and I was going to have to leave and it probably wouldn't bother him in the slightest.

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alwayscurious's avatar

I imagine that those who have not experienced personal interaction with individuals like this can't grasp the extent and depth of the narcissism, contempt they have for others and for their need and joy at control. They may understand at some level that their cruelty is wrong, but they don't care, have no remorse, and certainly experience no regret. Just as they recognize each other, they recognize those most likely be bullied and abused, those most unlike them of course.

It has been good reading, thanks for writing this series.

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